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I'm a very firm believer in what Hickory Starr, Sr. once said to me when I asked him if I should talk about our Ceremonial Grounds and the culture of the Keetoowah. His response was a quote that I have adopted. "Unshared knowledge, is knowledge lost." Hickory (Geyosehi) was the Chief of the Nighthawk Keetooway Society at Redbird Smith's Ceremonial Grounds near Vian, Oklahoma off Moonshine Rd. He passed away in 1991 and his memory is still strong. There are several stories I could relate about him. And may do so at some point.
Due to the fact that I speak often of my ancestors and various members of my family, it will happen from time to time, that people may hear something that they'll either think or say something like, "No way!" causing them to think that I'm just lying to them.. In order for my listeners and readers to grasp what I'm trying to get across, I need to explain the vast age differences in my family. I am the only one out of twenty-three grandchildren of Robert Bruce Ross and Fannie Daniel Thornton that was born after they passed away. They were married for 60 years and one week, and saw so many things that were and are critical to the advancement of my people, the Cherokee. I love life today, but truly wish that I had been born about the same time as my father and have grown up around the time the 20th century rolled around.
I only have the recollections of my first cousins for stories about them. Of the twenty-three first cousins there's only one other and myself remaining today. There's a twenty year age difference and and we're living a thousand miles apart, so we don't see each other as often as we'd like.... It is believed that we are the last of Chief John Ross' great-great grandchildren. There may be others, but not to our knowledge.
I was born in March of 1945, ninety-nine years and nine months after my Grandfather Robert Bruce Ross was born. Grandfather was born August 13, 1845 and served in the War Between the States (erroneously know as the Civil War) as a First Sergeant in the 2nd Indian Home Guard, Kansas Infantry. At the end of the War, he returned to Tahlequah where he met his future bride beside the Ross Spring on the outskirts of town. They were married on Christmas Day, 1867. Their first son, Charles McClelland Ross was born on December 17, 1868. YES, you got that right ~ my Uncle was born three years after the Civil War ended. My Father Robert Bruce Ross, Jr. was the eighth of nine children being born on December 26, 1887. YES, Dad was almost 58 when I was born. In order for my listeners and readers to grasp what I'm trying to get across, I need to explain the vast age differences in my family.
NOTICE: The following is a tribute to one of my first cousins. I think you might be interested in reading this recap of her most fascinating and productive life.
Mary Golda Ross
Aug. 9, 1908- April 29, 2008
Mary Golda “Gold” Ross passed away Tuesday April 29th at her home in Los Altos, California just 3 ½ months before her 100th birthday. An American Indian aerospace engineer, Mary Golda Ross made notable contributions in aerospace technology, particularly in areas related to space flight and ballistic missiles.
Known outside the family as Mary ~ Gold, as she was known to the family, was part of the original engineering team at Lockheed's Missile Systems Division, where she worked on a number of defense systems, and contributed to space exploration efforts with her work relating to the Apollo program, the Polaris reentry vehicle, and interplanetary space probes.
Born in Oklahoma on August 9, 1908, Ross took pride in her heritage as a Cherokee Indian. Her great-great-grandfather, John Ross, was the principal chief of the Cherokee Nation between 1828 and 1866. Ross was later to remark that she had been brought up in the Cherokee tradition of equal education for both boys and girls. She was, however, the only girl in her math class, which did not seem to bother her. Indeed, her early interests were math, physics, and science.
Armed with these interests and a sense of purpose, Miss Ross graduated from high school when she was sixteen. She attended Northeastern State Teacher's College and graduated from there in 1928, when she was twenty. After graduating from Northeastern State Teachers College, Ross taught mathematics and science for nine and one-half years in public schools. She also served as a girls' advisor at a Pueblo and Navajo school for boys and girls. Ross returned to school herself, this time to Colorado State Teachers College (now the University of Northern Colorado at Greeley), where she graduated with a master's degree in mathematics in 1938.
With the growth of the aviation industry in the early part of World War II, Miss Ross found a position in 1942 as an assistant to a consulting mathematician with Lockheed Aircraft Corporation in Burbank, California. Her early work at Lockheed involved engineering problems having to do with transport and fighter aircraft. Meanwhile, with the support of Lockheed, Ross continued her education at the University of California, Los Angeles, where she took courses in aeronautical and mechanical engineering.
When Lockheed formed its Missiles Systems Division in 1954, it selected Mary Ross to be one of the first forty employees, and she was the only female engineer among them. As the American missile program matured, Miss Ross found herself researching and evaluating feasibility and performance of ballistic missile and other defense systems. She also studied the distribution of pressure caused by ocean waves and how it affected submarine-launched vehicles.
Her work in 1958 concentrated on satellite orbits and the Agena series of rockets that played so prominent a role in the Apollo moon program during the 1960s and 70s. As an advanced systems engineer, Miss Ross worked on the Polaris reentry vehicle and engineering systems for manned space flights. Before her retirement from Lockheed in 1973, Ross undertook research on flyby space probes that would study Mars and Venus. After Ross retired she continued her interests in engineering by delivering lectures to high school and college groups to encourage young women and Native American youths to train for technical careers.
Ross authored a number of classified publications relating to her work in national defense and received several awards during her career. A charter member of the Los Angeles chapter of the Society of Women Engineers since 1952, Ross has received a number of honors. In 1961 she garnered the San Francisco Examiner's award for Woman of Distinction and the Woman of Achievement Award from the California State Federation of Business and Professional Clubs. Ross was elected a fellow and life member of the Society of Women Engineers, whose Santa Clara Valley Section established a scholarship in her name. She has also been the recipient of achievement awards from the American Indian Science and Engineering Society and from the Council of Energy Resource Tribes. In 1992 she was inducted into the Silicon Valley Engineering Hall of Fame.
Among her many awards, she was selected as Outstanding Alumnus where she received her Bachelor’s Degree in Oklahoma 1994 and where she received her Master’s Degree in Colorado in 1992. In addition to this she was a very strong supporter, both financial and vocal, for AISES (American Indians in Science and Engineering Society)
Gold left behind to cherish and keep her memory alive: a sister, Billie Ross Meyer** of Middletown, New York; two first cousins John Ross Piburn of Denton, Texas and R. Bruce Ross, IV of Scottsdale, Arizona; plus countless nieces, nephews, cousins and loved ones throughout the Cherokee Nation and around the world. Today we need only to look to up to the stars and say,
"Thank you, Gold, for your lifetime of contributions to all of mankind."